Ghosting Isn't Going To Solve Your Problems, It Just Makes Things Worse

I'm a grown woman. I don't have time to play games when it comes to the dating world. 
You're interested in me? Ok, great. Prove it. Put in the effort. Be consistent. Show me that you're going to stick around and that you actually want to be with me.
I'm not saying that I don't put effort in. I'm making the point that it's usually the other person who isn't.

I'm tired of meeting men, hitting it off, thinking it's going to go somewhere and then they decide that they're just going to ignore me until I get the idea. This is called ghosting. And you know what? It's not okay. I know we are all guilty of doing it, but I'm done doing that. I realized it was childish and wrong and hurtful. If I'm not interested or I just don't think we're compatible, I'll tell you, nicely. I never like to make anyone feel bad. Honesty is really important and so is communication.

Word of advice: If you're not sure if you're into someone or not, at least take them on a date first just to make sure. Hanging out with someone in a group setting all the time isn't enough and neither is judging their character by the way they text.

So, if you're going to ghost someone, think of how the other person will feel. Put yourself in their shoes.
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